A surgeon
in the Colonial Service, Barry was stationed in countries including
South Africa, Canada and Mauritius and also served in the Crimean
War. It is believed that she gained a reputation for having
a flirtatious manner, and became known for sexual peccadilloes
involving fellow officer’s wives and the officers themselves.
She is also said to have fought a duel over a woman in 1819.
It is all
the more remarkable that Barry held the disguise of being a
man for more than 50 years, as she would have maintained a smooth
face when abroad while colleagues would have typically grown
facial hair.
Barry was
described as being 5ft tall, with a pale face, high cheekbones,
sandy curls - dyed red in later life - a long nose and blue
eyes. Her hands were small and delicate. Many of her acquaintances
later reported that they had suspicions about her true sex,
some believing her to be a hermaphrodite.
While in
Trinidad, Barry contracted yellow fever and it is believed that
her sex was discovered as a result. However, reports suggest
that she managed to persuaded the doctor who made the discovery
not to unveil her secret.